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		<title>NLP And Neuro Linguistic Programming For Health And Wellness</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2008 02:51:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Corey</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[NLP or Neurolinguistic Programming fits among some of the other most important healing tools of our day, such as Homeopathy, hypnosis, and energy healing. Neuro Linguistic Programming was founded by UC Santa Cruz Linguistics Professor John Grinder, Phd., and Gestalt therapist and student Richard Bandler in the 1970&#8242;s at the University of California, Santa Cruz. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>NLP or Neurolinguistic Programming fits among some of the other most important healing tools of our day, such as Homeopathy, hypnosis, and energy healing. Neuro Linguistic Programming was founded by UC Santa Cruz Linguistics Professor John Grinder, Phd., and Gestalt therapist and student Richard Bandler in the 1970&#8242;s at the University of California, Santa Cruz. Important contributors to NLP include Robert Dilts, Todd Epstein, Judith DeLozier, Carmen Bostic St. Claire, and many others.</p>
<p>The original models of NLP included Milton Erickson, Virgina Satir, Fritz Perls, and Moshe Feldenkrais among others. Carlos Casteneda served as an important early influence. Gregory Bateson, author of Steps to an Ecology of Mind, guided much of the early work. By integrating the tools of many of these geniuses, they have helped many people heal old problems and transform people allowing individuals to become peak performers, achievers, and livers of life with greater joy and excellence.<br />
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Basic ideas such as repoir, represenational systems, and modeling have become a part of most management and behavioral training operations.</p>
<p>Grinder and Bandler published many influential books in the 1970&#8242;s and each continued to develop nlp in different directions since that time. In recent years, other influential contributers such as Judith Delozier and Robert Dilts, have influenced and impacted the field. Important books in the early years of NLP included Re-framing, Theraputic Metaphors, and And They Lived Happily Ever After. Among the more well known nlp techniques include reframing, language patterns, and eye accessing cues.</p>
<p>The foundation of the ethical use of NLP is allowing the client&#8217;s own unconscious to choose the goal or desired result, rather than the therapist or guide.</p>
<p>Over the years, more and more brilliant, thoughtful, and creative individuals have brought their personal gifts and abilities to the project, resulting in a quickly evolving system of personal improvement and excellence.</p>
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		<title>Choose Your Reality and Create Your Future</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Aug 2007 23:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Corey</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Each and every one of us forms mental models as to what we believe is real and what is not. These models establish how things should or shouldn’t be done and what is possible or not possible for us. For some of us, these mental models severely restrict our potential, our enjoyment of life and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Each and every one of us forms mental models as to what we believe is real and what is not. These models establish how things should or shouldn’t be done and what is possible or not possible for us. For some of us, these mental models severely restrict our potential, our enjoyment of life and our ability to connect with others. Yet, others have mental models that provide all sorts of positive opportunities. We call these mental models reality and often steadfastly hold on to them even when there is significant evidence to the contrary.</p>
<p>How did these models come to be? As we grow up, we attempt to make sense of the world based on: our interpretation of our experiences, what we are told by others – particularly those in authority or those we respect (parents, teachers, religious leaders, …) – and what we tell ourselves.<br />
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Interpretation of Our Experiences. As children, we make decisions that will in some way keep us safe – avoid or minimize being abused (physically or verbally) or being abandoned. And often we assume we are the cause of whatever happened – e.g. the untimely death of our parents – and in so doing, vow at an unconscious level to never do that again. We establish mental models of the world that are intended to protect us from causing such upset in the future. As a result, we put ourselves at the effect of whatever happens and on the path of being a victim. As children, these mental models may serve us well. Yet, some of us carry these models, which operate at an unconscious level, into adulthood and wonder why we get the results we do and are not living the life we desire.</p>
<p>What We are Told by Others. Generally, parents or other adults are well-meaning in their disciplining or teaching of children. However the behaviors they select and words they use are often inappropriate and when interpreted through the eyes and ears of a young child take on a different meaning. Consider the parent who desperately wants to see their child succeed and says to their child, for example “If you keep acting this way, you will grow up to be no good.” This type of motivation may satisfy the parent’s need; however the child may hear and begin to develop a mental model of ‘I am no good.’ A recent study by researchers at Iowa State University found in a typical family with children aged two to eight that the ratio of negative to positive comments said by parents to their children was 13:1. That is for every positive comment, children heard thirteen negative comments. If as a child, you lived in this type of environment, what mental model did you form about yourself, others and the world around you?</p>
<p>What We Tell Ourselves. We are talking to ourselves all of the time – often at an unconscious level. We tell ourselves how wonderful we are or how badly we messed up. For many of us, negative thoughts are far, far more frequent than positive thoughts. Although each thought by itself is insignificant, these thoughts can build up over time – just like the insignificant tiny coral polyps that come together to form massive coral reefs – thus forming barriers to what we truly want and desire in life.</p>
<p>To overcome this conditioning, we need to become consciously aware of our mental models and explore the origins of our thoughts and the beliefs and values (which are often not ours but someone else’s) that we assumed during our childhood. Begin by paying attention to your daily thoughts and judgments about yourself and about others. As you do, get curious about the underlying beliefs and values that you are operating from, especially their origin and explore the possibility that these thoughts, judgments, beliefs and values may be incorrect. You can also explore the positive intention behind these beliefs and values (e.g. safety) and consider if the positive intention is still relevant (e.g. worked for you as a child but not as an adult) or if it can be obtained in a different manner – a manner that delivers fewer negative side-effects and more positive benefits. On a daily basis, you may wish to experiment with new behaviors – not dictated by your old thoughts – and notice the changes you can make in your interpretation of what is and isn’t possible for you. As you implement new behaviors, you may not always be successful. At these times, remember the words of Thomas Alva Edison “I have not failed. I have just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”</p>
<p>This article is based on Roger’s book Live Your Dreams Let Reality Catch Up: NLP and Common Sense for Coaches, Managers and You , which you can buy from Amazon.com. </p>
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		<title>Cognitive Therapy And NLP Approaches To Combat Depressive And Anxious Thinking</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 May 2007 23:23:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Corey</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Karen Hastings, Hertfordshire Changing the way you think in order to improve the way you feel, forms the basis of cognitive approaches to mental-wellbeing. Cognitive therapies recognise that our thoughts can affect our understanding of the outside world. Depressed people (i.e. people that practice depressed thoughts!) experience the world in a different way to [...]]]></description>
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<p>by Karen Hastings, Hertfordshire</p>
<p>Changing the way you think in order to improve the way you feel, forms the basis of cognitive approaches to mental-wellbeing. Cognitive therapies recognise that our thoughts can affect our understanding of the outside world. Depressed people (i.e. people that practice depressed thoughts!) experience the world in a different way to others. For example, they may perceive colours less vibrantly, food can seem bland and unpleasant, and safe everyday situations can seem threatening. They often predict bad outcomes from actions and events where others would expect positive consequences. A depressed persons world is likely to be experienced significantly differently to a happy person&#8217;s. However, to an observer their circumstances could appear the same.</p>
<p>Cognitive therapy and related approaches such as NLP (neuro-linguistic-programming) are very effective at helping people recognise the thinking habits behind problems such as depression, anxiety, panic disorders and phobias. There are many cognitive techniques for testing negative thinking patterns and developing new more adaptive ways of thinking. If you are considering cognitive therapy, expect to commit to homework tasks and regular practise of these techniques.<br />
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Negative thoughts are usually fairly easily identifiable with the help of a therapist. In order to bring about a more global change, it&#8217;s often necessary to go beyond the thoughts we have to the deeper levels of our cognition &#8211; our beliefs.</p>
<p>Most people rarely think about their beliefs, how they developed, their role in guiding your life or whether they are helpful and supportive.</p>
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<p>That&#8217;s because our beliefs have often been with us for a very long time. Very often we develop them in childhood. For example, a child may learn that &#8216;dogs are dangerous&#8217; or &#8216;dogs are friendly&#8217;, depending on his experiences related to dogs. As that child grows up, it is likely that he will become more flexible in his belief about dogs, able to judge individual dogs for friendliness or dangerousness. This happens in most areas of our lives, as the more rigid beliefs from childhood, evolve and become more flexible as we develop.</p>
<p>However, this is not always the case. Sometimes negative beliefs develop due to trauma or consistent negative interactions or early life experiences. These beliefs often remain fixed in adulthood even though they hold the person back or negatively impact on their lives. Often they are taken as the absolute truth.</p>
<p>Beliefs form the core of your identity. Holding beliefs about yourself, your world and others that are unconstructive and not necessarily true, can be bad news for your self-esteem. Beliefs influence on your emotional experience and behaviour by colouring how you see the world.</p>
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<p>Every belief you have is a generalisation or simplified way of viewing the world. Generalisations by their very nature are distortions. Often when I see clients for therapy it is possible to find a distorted belief behind the problem. For example &#8216;I am worthless&#8217; is a belief, which promotes depression.</p>
<p>Your beliefs can actually determine outcomes. This is because your beliefs effect what you focus on or pay attention too. So for example, if you focus on being un-likeable, your unconscious mind will be on the lookout for examples of people not liking you and will find various ways to bring this to your attention. Whilst this is going on, you are of course ignoring evidence that shows you are in fact liked by all sorts of people.</p>
<p>I practice NLP, CBT therapy in Hertfordshire and I am also a hypnotherapist, Hertfordshire. People often come to see me with difficulties, which can be traced back to limiting beliefs e.g. &#8220;I am unattractive&#8221;, &#8220;I am a bad person&#8221;. Of course, it is not always obvious to them that they are holding onto damaging beliefs about themselves and their world, which prevent them from growing and developing or doing things they want too.</p>
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<p>NLP and CBT therapy and Hypnotherapy, Hertfordshire has proven methods for empowering people to challenge and even eradicate illogical beliefs. The result can mean seeing the world in new and fresh ways.</p>
<p>About the Author</p>
<p>Karen Hastings, has a degree in Psychology and is also a Mental Health Occupational Therapist, Master NLP practitioner, and Hypnotherapist, in Hertfordshire.Karen has NHS and private practice experience of using cognitive approaches to support people in overcoming a range of problems. Karen is based in Hertfordshire. For further information visit <a href="http://www.karenhastings.co.uk/">http://www.karenhastings.co.uk</a>.<br />
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		<title>Magic Pills Do Not Exist &#8211; Even NLP Ones</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2007 21:57:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Corey</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As an NLP master practitioner who runs an NLP practice in Herts, I am one of the first to sing the praises of NLP as a therapy tool, as I believe it can be a really effective instrument for change work, when used in the hands of a good NLP practitioner. However, as an occupational [...]]]></description>
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<p>As an NLP master practitioner who runs an NLP practice in Herts, I am one of the first to sing the praises of NLP as a therapy tool, as I believe it can be a really effective instrument for change work, when used in the hands of a good NLP practitioner.</p>
<p>However, as an occupational therapist, and having worked in mainstream NHS mental-healthcare, I also believe that NLP at times sends out a misleading vibe, which cannot be said of some of the more traditional therapies. By this I mean that NLP can give the impression of being this magical therapy that will cure people in minutes, when years of psychotherapy, counselling, cognitive behavioural therapy etc. has had little or no effect.</p>
<p>The result of this misconception about NLP, is that clients can turn up for a consultation at NLP Herts, expecting the therapist to wave her magic wand, with little or no effort on their part. Like all therapies, NLP relies heavily on the client’s commitment and motivation to want to change.<br />
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A good therapist or NLP practitioner will want evidence of this commitment, in terms of the client being willing to engage fully in the process, particularly spending initial therapy sessions learning the fundamental principles of NLP such as the major frames, the communication model and presuppositions.</p>
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<p>It is crucial for the client to ‘buy into’ these principles such as the frame ‘being at cause’ and to fully understand the impact of the way they filter life experiences on their state and behaviour, before any of the ‘magic’ can begin.</p>
<p>Unlike other therapies, NLP does have specific techniques such as the Fast Phobia Cure, Swish, Change Personal History and Parts Integration that are rather glamorous. In my opinion, these techniques do work very well, only always when they are supplemented by the more mundane psycho-educational work.</p>
<p>I recently had a highly agitated client turn up for a therapy consultation expecting that I could ‘do something’ immediately to help him feel better. This client had experience of other more traditional therapies and my hunch is that he would not of expected the same of his psychotherapist!</p>
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<p>NLP is not about a therapist doing a technique on a client that will solve all their problems in an instant. It is a highly effective therapy that can lead to new options in thinking and behaviour when the client works alongside the therapist. Like other therapies such as CBT, NLP strategies and any new positive behavioural and emotional habits require practice and hard work by the client.</p>
<p>So, if your looking for a quick fix, NLP isn’t it! And any practitioner that tells you otherwise is probably after your money. Don’t let this put you off seeking NLP. It is very effective and if you want change in your life and are prepared to work towards it with the therapists support, you will have change. NLP is available at NLP Herts.</p>
<p class="sig">Karen Hastings is a NHS experienced mental health occupational therapist, Master NLP practitioner and hypnotherapist. Karen uses hypnotherapy in Hertfordshire, along with cognitive therapy approaches. For more information about Hypnotherapy, Herts visit <a href="http://www.karenhastings.co.uk/" target="_new">http://www.karenhastings.co.uk</a></p>
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		<title>Beliefs About Food Affect Weight Loss</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2007 21:45:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Corey</dc:creator>
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<p><strong>Do You Believe You Can Stop Eating?</strong></p>
<p>Think about your belief in your ability to break this simple habit. The habit of eating when you&#8217;re not hungry. The habit of needing to feel stuffed to be satisfied. You can break the pattern, even if you don&#8217;t believe you can. It happens when you first simply stop eating a little sooner. You may still have over eaten, but your level of stuffed can be qualified, and you know when you&#8217;ve had enough, too much, or way too much. Start by learning to leave one bite on your plate. (Even a smear counts, whatever it takes to leave a teeny bit, it&#8217;s a start).</p>
<p>I know, that idea may seem radical, but it&#8217;s a great way to discover how you&#8217;ve eaten everything on your plate because it&#8217;s a habit to do so. Even if you only leave one pea, leave something on your plate. Secondly, just because there is more on the serving plate, don&#8217;t think you need to take more food. Wait a few minutes. Settle in. Get comfortable with the feeling of satisfaction. Get in touch with your hunger levels.<br />
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<p>I remember learning to recognize my hunger levels and the shock (and dismay) when I&#8217;d realize I&#8217;d had enough but half my food was still on my plate. I learned to ask for a doggy bag, take it home and eat in the next day. I learned to sometimes fix myself less food. I learned half a sandwich is sometimes enough. I learned a piece of fruit can satisfy my greatest hunger, for now, while I wait for dinner to cook. I learned, and so will you, when you just start to pay attention.</p>
<p>You can still have it all, but maybe you&#8217;ll eat half now and half later, and that&#8217;s okay.</p>
<p><strong>Small Shifts Equal Big Change</strong></p>
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<p>Small shifts in your beliefs about what you can accomplish may take a bit of time, but when you do make the shift it will seem sudden and it will be permanent. Ask anyone who&#8217;s lost a lot of weight and kept it off, and they&#8217;ll tell you, &#8220;I don&#8217;t know, something just suddenly clic.ked.&#8221; You can experience this sudden shift too.</p>
<p>Start today by noticing how much food you&#8217;re being offered when you aren&#8217;t hungry. Can you take some and save it for later? Just because the holidays are here is not an excuse to eat everything in sight. Thinking you&#8217;ll start your diet in January is a cop-out. Why put it off until then? Why not get started right now?</p>
<p>Get more in tune with what you do day-to-day and you can let go of the fear of either suffering through another diet or gaining more weight, or losing it and then regaining it. You don&#8217;t have to choose between stuffing or starving. You can learn to eat good food, enjoy it more, and melt into the shape you truly are meant to be.</p>
<p class="sig">~~ Kathryn Martyn, Master NLP Practitioner, EFT counselor, Weight Loss Coach and owner of <a href="http://www.onemorebite-weightloss.com/" target="_new">One More Bite Weight Loss</a> is the author of &#8220;Changing Beliefs, Your First Step to Permanent Weight Loss.&#8221;</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2007 21:32:52 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>By: Vincent Gray</p>
<p>As you probably know, the more real you make your visualizations the more power they have and the sooner they manifest in your life.</p>
<p>If you have seen The Secret, (if not go get it as soon as possible and watch it) you will remember the scene where you are asked to look at your hands then visualize those hands around the steering wheel of your new car.</p>
<p>For me this was one of the most realistic and powerful visualization exercises I have ever done. Helped a lot by the sound of the cars engine in the movie.</p>
<p>It got me thinking to seminar I had been on where the trainer asked us to take something physical in our hands. In this case it was a rock. Look at the item and study it in great detail. Take 2/3 minutes studying the rock. It can be a chain or anything you choose, however make sure its the same item you use every time.</p>
<p>After 2/3 minutes of studying the rock. Close your eyes and visualize your goal. See it in great detail, hear the sounds, feel the feelings of having achieved it. Make it as real as possible so that you are certain it will manifest in your life.<br />
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<p>Now to supercharge the reality of this visualization. See the rock you were studying in the visualization. See it in your hand in your visualization.</p>
<p>And since you have been studying it for 3 minutes you know exactly what it should look like. In fact your are still holding the rock in your hand in reality as well as in the visualization. This is the link between the real and the imagined.</p>
<p>By holding the rock and seeing the rock in your hand in the visualization &#8211; you are making the visualization so real you can touch it (in fact your are touching the rock)</p>
<p>Now let that feeling of reality spread out to the rest of the visualization and see how much more powerful real it feels.</p>
<p>Until the next time.</p>
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		<title>20 Tips for Happiness</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2007 06:40:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By: Michelle Rowley How to Be Happy -20 Tips That Really Work! from Michelle Rowley, author of “Personal Growth Strategies”. Tip 1 Have a positive attitude. One of the most significant, contributing factors to happiness is optimistic thinking. Although you won&#8217;t always have a choice in determining what goes on around you, you will always [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong>By: Michelle Rowley</strong><br />
How to Be Happy -20 Tips That Really Work!<br />
from Michelle Rowley, author of “Personal Growth Strategies”.</p>
<p>Tip 1 Have a positive attitude. One of the most significant, contributing factors to happiness is optimistic thinking. Although you won&#8217;t always have a choice in determining what goes on around you, you will always have a choice in determining how react to what goes on around you. This will largely determine the extent to which you are, or aren&#8217;t happy.</p>
<p>Tip 2 Make happiness a priority. If happiness is not at the top of your list then other things will take your focus. We become what we think about all day, so think, positive happy thoughts. It’s a choice, moment by moment.<span id="more-39"></span></p>
<p>Tip 3 Live your values. Be true to yourself. By living your life according to your values, you will develop an attitude of true acceptance of yourself. You will realize that you are fine the way you are. You may choose to make some changes in your life simply because you realize that you have greater potential than you have utilized so far.</p>
<p>Tip 4 Love Yourself. High self-esteem is crucial for a happy life. Healthy self-esteem means relying on what’s on the inside, rather than what’s happening in the outside world to make you happy. Self-esteem is the core of your power and all else stems from this.</p>
<p>Tip 5 Set goals for success. Give your mind a positive goal to focus on. Just like in any other life area, the successful pursuit of happiness requires planning. Planning requires effective goal setting. And don’t forget to make sure your goals are SMART (specific,measurable, achievable, relevant and timed).</p>
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<p>Tip 6 Do things that make you happy. Although this sounds obvious, many people simply forget to do things from which they gain pleasure. And do them as often as possible.</p>
<p>Tip 7 Live in the present moment. Remember that life is finite. The author, Henry Miller once said “Every moment is a golden one for him who has the vision to recognize it as such. ”The only moment in which we can truly be happy is the present moment. The only moment over which we have control is the present moment. So be happy now! Because if not now, then when?</p>
<p>Tip 8 Have a laugh Laughing is one of the quickest ways to send our happiness levels soaring. A Stanford University study showed that one minute of laughter equaled 10 minutes on a rowing machine in terms of warding off stress.</p>
<p>Tip 9 Engage in random acts of kindness. Did you know that by simply being kind to another person or witnessing a kind act boosts your serotonin levels in you and the other person? It also increases the levels in another person witnessing the act. Happy people are more generous and altruistic.</p>
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<p>Tip 10 Eat your way to happiness. Fuel up on fish: Fish are high in omega-3s which boost your happiness. Eat complex carbohydrates &#8211; this means wholegrain bread, starchy vegetables, beans and pulses, and wholegrain cereals. MIT scientists say these boost the brain’s levels of serotonin, which plays a big role in how happy we feel. Take Tryptophan. Found in turkey, avocados and bananas, tryptophan promotes the production of serotonin. A study published in the journal Brain, Behavior and Immunity found a lack of tryptophan can lower your mood levels. Don’t forget to take a good amino acid supplement- more and more information is coming out that we need to be supplementing our diets with the building blocks of protein- amino-acids.</p>
<p>Tip 11 Go, go and keep going all the way. We all face obstacles and problems at times. Happy people expect this and adapt to them. All of the components outlined above are skills that can be learned. Just like any other skills, you&#8217;ll get better at utilizing these strategies with practice and perseverance. Stick at it and happiness will be yours.</p>
<p>Tip 12 Focus on your strengths, not weaknesses. Work out what you&#8217;re good at and find ways to do it as much as possible. Happiness is not as much about fixing your faults and overcoming your weaknesses as it is about finding ways to focus your life on and around your talents and qualities.</p>
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<p>Tip 13 Have fun and enjoy humor Take delight in life and create fun experiencesfor yourself. Don&#8217;t make life be too heavy!</p>
<p>Tip 14 Control what you can control. Cultivate the feeling that you are in control of your own destiny. Happiness can be enhanced by maximizing the control you have over your life. So learn and practice skills such as problem solving, time management and meditation and communication. At the same time, however, no one has complete control and so it is also important to be realistic and to accept that over which you have no control. Accept what youcan’t control. And learn to change problems into opportunities for growth and development.</p>
<p>Tip 15 Invest time and energy in to your key relationships. Happy people spend more time working on, and in, their relationships. Happy people tend to be more supportive of other people in their life.</p>
<p>Tip 16 When a problems arises see what you can learn from itEverything you do and every person you meet, in every situation, presents an opportunity to learn, change and grow. Every situation you find yourself in can be a great opportunity to expand yourself. There is always something to learn from a problem. This is the same for problems in a relationship. Look at problems as challenges to learn and grow from both for yourselves and your relationship.</p>
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<p>Tip 17 Replace negative self talk with positive self talkThe Dalai Lama has been quoted saying that “The central method for achieving a happier life is to train your mind in a daily practice that weakens negative attitudes and strengthens positive ones.” Learn first to identify your negativethoughts and then begin to challenge those that are negative and unhelpful.</p>
<p>Tip 18 Ensure you get adequate sleep, rest, exercise and waterListen to your body and what it is telling you. You need to take care of yourself and this also involves getting plenty of rest, drinking at least 8 glasses of water each day and relaxation and/or meditation strategies. Exercise regularly. Exercising produces endorphins or “happy” hormones.</p>
<p>Tip 19 Develop a sense of life purpose. Developing a sense of life purpose will also markedly increase your chances of experiencing true happiness. As well as working out where you want to get to, make sure you have a good reason for why you&#8217;re trying to go there.</p>
<p>Tip 20 Be grateful and appreciate what you have. We all have many choices in life, one of which is whether to focus on all the things we don’t have (of which theremight be many), or to focus on all the things we do have. There’s no doubt, that gratitude and appreciation will significantly increase your chances of experiencing happiness</p>
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<p>Many of the tips listed here are described in more detail in the ebook,Personal Growth Strategies <a href="http://www.personal-growth-strategies.com" title="intoNLP Articles and Books" target="_blank">http://www.personal-growth-strategies.com/</a></p>
<p>About the Author</p>
<p>Michelle Rowley is a Master Practitioner of NLP, Timeline Therapy™ and Hypnotherapy and is certified by their respective American Boards. She is the author of Personal Growth Strategies. <a href="http://www.personal-growth-strategies.com" title="IntoNLP Articles and Books" target="_blank">http://www.personal-growth-strategies.com</a></p>
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		<title>Common and Deadly Decision Traps</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2007 06:19:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By: Arman Darini, Ph.D. Good to be connecting with you again. Our topic for today is common and deadly decision traps, and how to avoid them. Recall that in the previous article we spoke about the structure of extraordinary decision making, and I explained the steps you have to follow to make excellent outcomes happen. [...]]]></description>
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<p>By: Arman Darini, Ph.D.</p>
<p>Good to be connecting with you again. Our topic for today is common and deadly decision traps, and how to avoid them. Recall that in the previous article we spoke about the structure of extraordinary decision making, and I explained the steps you have to follow to make excellent outcomes happen. As you follow the steps, it&#8217;s important to watch out for a handful of places where most people consistently make mistakes. I will point out two of them today, explain how to sidestep each one and top it off with a simple way to turn hesitation into decisiveness. Your job, of course, is to be honest with yourself, notice what you need to work on, and learn how to improve your decision muscle.<br />
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FIRST TRAP of plunging in:</p>
<p>Ok, the first major trap happens even before the deciding starts. It&#8217;s the trap of plunging in headfirst into the deciding without pausing to answer one critical question: What&#8217;s the essence of the problem?</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s take our decision example from last week: &#8220;How do I double my salary?&#8221; If you jump in to answer this question without thinking, you might answer the wrong question altogether. Ask yourself first: &#8220;What&#8217;s the essence of the problem?&#8221; Are you even seeing the different possibilities? Consider these and notice just how much they differ:<br />
- You need to make more money.<br />
- You want to feel that your work is valued appropriately.<br />
- You are looking for another challenge.<br />
- Your spouse is beating you over the head demanding that you earn more.<br />
- You want to bolster your self-esteem.</p>
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<p>Do you see how each of these completely changes the underlying decision, and will necessarily lead to different alternatives and outcomes? For example, if you are looking for another challenge, then you won’t take up the job washing dishes in a restaurant. If, on the other hand, it’s about your self-esteem, then the simplest solution might be invest in a couple of hours of NLP coaching to quickly improve your self-esteem that way.</p>
<p>If you are not aware of the essence of the problem, then you will randomly pick one and it&#8217;s often the wrong one. Just think how many times have you thought you really wanted something, went out and bought it, and a few days later felt as dissatisfied as your were before the purchase. You&#8217;ve been solving the wrong problem!</p>
<p>SECOND TRAP of frame blindness:</p>
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<p>The second major decision trap is frame blindness. Recall from the last newsletter that framing the decision happens in languaging the question that you pose. Framing is inevitable, and it brings some aspects of the problem into the focus, while pushing others into the background.</p>
<p>One subtle and influential frame effect is hidden inside the unspoken beliefs you have about what is possible. These beliefs form the boundaries of your map of the world. If you don&#8217;t believe it is possible to triple your salary, then your decision frame will exclude this alternative. If you believe that it is hard to find someone who will love you wholeheartedly, then you will refuse to consider the easy opportunities to meeting such person.</p>
<p>Your beliefs frame your reality. And you know what? Most of them are arbitrary. What&#8217;s even worse, most of the beliefs you&#8217;ve got were installed into your mind without your awareness by your well-meaning family, friends, school, and culture. Unfortunately well-meaning is not the same as wise. All this happened when you were a small child and quite gullible. If we laid out your beliefs on a flat table in front of your eyes and you examined them right now, you would find many of them silly, outdated and false.</p>
<p>So, how can you avoid this trap of unspoken beliefs? Whenever you pose a decision question, ask yourself: “What will always remain true in any answer to this question?” Take, for instance, the decision: “How do I double my salary?” Regardless of the answer, you will be looking for ways to increase the salary and not to save the money. And you will be looking for a job where someone pays you a salary. Once the beliefs presupposed by the question become clear, choose whether you want to expand the frame or leave it as it is. (As an exercise, count all the unspoken beliefs inside the “Where can I find the love of my life?” decision.)</p>
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<p>All right, enough about traps. You&#8217;ve listened attentively, you&#8217;ve learned well, you followed the extraordinary decision making steps and you carefully avoided the traps. Now is finally the right time to make the decision and take the first action. BUT, what&#8217;s that? What are those unbidden questions in your mind: &#8220;Have I really thought this through?&#8221; &#8220;Is there something I haven&#8217;t considered?&#8221; &#8220;What else could I do?&#8221;</p>
<p>Stalling. Hesitating. Feeling afraid of closing the doors on other opportunities. Because by making the decision you commit to one path and close off all the others. If you are of the kind that likes to keep her options open, then deciding means trouble.</p>
<p>Oh-oh. What to do? Well, if I was your coach working with you 1 on 1, then there are a few hundred of different possibilities we could explore to find the right solution for you. But, not having this luxury, here is a cookie cutter approach that often works right out of the box. Ask yourself: &#8220;How many opportunities am I missing right now by deciding to become rigid with hesitation?” Most people rarely consider the cost of not making the decision right away, and so rarely feel the urgency. This question moves you beyond hesitation into action. And, as you well know, decisions are lifeless until you take the first step. NOW.</p>
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<p>Arman Darini, Ph.D. is the director of Holographic University, the author of weekly Tips for Creating an Extraordinary and Meaningful Life, and a certified international http://www.HolographicUniversity.com/nlpguide.php Trainer. As the leader of a dynamic team of Life Trainers and Coaches, Arman&#8217;s motto is &#8220;I don&#8217;t believe in your limitations&#8221;. To learn more about Arman, visit http://www.ArmanDarini.com</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Mar 2007 12:21:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By: Kris Hallbom Before he passed away, someone asked an ailing Gregory Bateson, &#8220;Who will carry on with your work, once you&#8217;re gone.&#8221; Gregory, being the great philosopher, anthropologist and systems thinker that he was replied, &#8220;A man by the name of Humberto Maturana out of Santiago, Chile. He has been doing some very interesting [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong>By: Kris Hallbom</strong></p>
<p>Before he passed away, someone asked an ailing Gregory Bateson, &#8220;Who will carry on with your work, once you&#8217;re gone.&#8221;</p>
<p>Gregory, being the great philosopher, anthropologist and systems thinker that he was replied, &#8220;A man by the name of Humberto Maturana out of Santiago, Chile. He has been doing some very interesting research that compliments my work.&#8221; (Ruiz, 1997)</p>
<p>Bateson and Maturana, both contemporary philosophers and systemic thinkers, spent a good part of their academic careers searching for the &#8220;Patterns of Life&#8221;. Both men have strong backgrounds in cybernetics and were colleagues of the great cybernetician Heinz Von Foerester, who originated the legendary Macy conferences in the 1950&#8242;s in which cybernetics developer Norbert Wiener played a great part in. Bateson and Maturana found each other in the same circles over and over again throughout the years, which probably prompted Bateson to make such a powerful statement about Maturana in the final months of his life. One would think that it was Gregory&#8217;s hope that someone as brilliant as he, could continue on with the genius of his work.<span id="more-35"></span></p>
<p>Humberto Maturana, a neuro-biologist and professor, co-developed the Santiago Theory of Autopoiesis with his student and colleague, Fransisco Varela. Together, the two men developed a theory for living systems that is very similar to the work of Gregory Bateson. While Bateson&#8217;s work concentrated on the overall &#8220;meta pattern&#8221; that connects all living things, Maturana and Varela&#8217;s work focused on &#8220;Autopoiesis&#8221; the pattern to be found inside of all living systems.</p>
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<p>Autopoiesis has to do with how systems create, sustain and generate life while maintaining their overall structure and organization. Autopoiesis explores the internal occurrences that happen within a system and the parts that make up the system; the relationships between those parts; the boundaries that surround and contain the parts; how information emerges from the system via cognition; and how external information triggers the structure of the overall system.</p>
<p>The Greek meaning of the word auto is &#8220;self&#8221; and refers to the autonomy of self organizing systems. The Greek poeire means production or creation, such as poetry and refers to the ongoing creative processes that exists within all living systems. Thus autopoiesis means &#8220;self creating&#8221;. I remember the first time I came across the word autopoiesis. I was fascinated with the promise that this concept offered for understanding not only the systemic nature of human beings, but also the possibility of becoming attractors for what we want in life through the process of &#8220;self creating&#8221;. Autopoiesis is important to the field of NLP because it offers us a deeper understanding of the structure and organization of our human experience on this earth.</p>
<p>According to Maturana, the &#8220;organization&#8221; of a living system represents its identity, while the &#8220;structure&#8221; represents the components that make up the system. A system may change its structure without loss of identity, as long as the organization remains the same. An example of this autpoietic principle can be seen in the art work of 16th Century Italian painter Giuseppe Arcimboldo, who created portraits of faces which were composed of fruit, vegetables and seafood. The organization of the portrait is represented by the image of the face, while the structure of the face is composed of food. No matter what kind of food or element Arcimboldo made his faces out of, the organization/identity stayed the same. It was the structure that changed by simply changing the components that represented the image of the face.</p>
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<p>A person&#8217;s life is organized around their identity, yet the structure of their life is always changing. The pure essence of who they are will always be the same, it&#8217;s the structure of their experience that changes. Moreover, the actual process of creating structural changes is as important as the changes that take place, for the process represents ongoing relationships between the components that form the structure of the system. It is the nature of these relationships that demonstrate the various patterns of organization which constitutes the structure of the system&#8217;s identity. (Maturana and Varela, 1987)</p>
<p>The central characteristic of an autopoietic system is that it undergoes continual structural changes while preserving its web like pattern of organization. The components of the network continually produce and transform one another, and they do so in two distinct ways. One way is through the process of &#8220;self renewal&#8221;. Every living organism continually renews itself. When you clip your nails, they grow back. If you cut yourself, the wound will heal. When you trim your hair, it grows back. In spite of this ongoing change, the person maintains their overall identity or pattern of organization.</p>
<p>The second type of structural changes in a living system are changes in which new structures are created, thus new connections in the autopoietic network. These type of changes occur because of environmental influences or as a result of the systems internal dynamics. A living system interacts with its environment through &#8220;Structural Coupling&#8221;. Moreover, the environment only &#8220;triggers&#8221; the structural changes, it does not specify or direct them. (Capra, 1996)</p>
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<p>According to Maturana and Varela, structural coupling establishes a clear difference between the ways living and nonliving systems interact with their environments. Kicking a stone and kicking a dog are two very different stories, as Gregory Bateson was fond of pointing out. The point that Bateson was making is that when you kick a stone you can predict exactly how far it will go by calculating its weight, it&#8217;s mass, the pressure exerted on the stone by your foot and so on. However, when you kick a dog, it will be a totally unpredictable event. You will have no idea where the dog will go. For every dog might have a different internal response to being kicked. Some dogs might run, others will howl or bark, and others might wag their tail with excitement because they like being kicked.</p>
<p>Our experience of life is truly an internal experience. Maturana says that the map is the territory. Ultimately, the structure of our internal experience of reality is the only map we&#8217;ll ever know. Beyond that, it&#8217;s all perceptual illusion. External occurrences may happen outside of the self bounded system and may trigger an internal response, but given the structure and organization already in tact; the experience will ultimately be determined or distinguished by the history of the organism and how it chooses to represent reality through its perceptual filters. The structure of the internal response is what determines the experience for the living system.</p>
<p><strong>References:<br />
</strong><em>Ruiz, Alfredo, The Contributions of Humberto Maturana to the Sciences of Complexity and Psychology, Santiago, Chile; The Institute for Cognitive Therapy Abstract, 1997.<br />
Capra, Fritjof, The Web of Life, New York, NY; Anchor Books, (A Division of Bantam Dell Publishing Group, Inc.) 1996.<br />
Maturana, Humberto &amp; Varela, Fransisco, The Tree of Knowledge: The Biological Roots of Human Understanding, Boston, MA, Shambhala Publication, Inc., 1987.<br />
Bateson, Gregory, Steps to an Ecology of the Mind, New York, NY; Ballentine Books, 1972.</em>             _________________________________________________<br />
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		<description><![CDATA[By: Kris Hallbom There is a presupposition in NLP which states that you already have the resources that you need to be successful. NLP developer, author, and trainer Robert Dilts has taken this presupposition one step further on the evolutionary path of NLP, by developing a process called Generative NLP. The concept of Generative NLP [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong>By: Kris Hallbom</strong></p>
<p>There is a presupposition in NLP which states that you already have the resources that you need to be successful. NLP developer, author, and trainer Robert Dilts has taken this presupposition one step further on the evolutionary path of NLP, by developing a process called Generative NLP.</p>
<p>The concept of Generative NLP is that if you focus on your resources and how you can enrich them, instead of focusing on your problems, you&#8217;ll automatically attract the resolutions to your problems at an unconscious level because you&#8217;re operating from the resolution space to begin with. Hence, you can prevent and solve problems before they even come into your conscious awareness. Essentially, what Generative NLP does is it gives you the opportunity to unveil, release, and strengthen your latent capabilities and resources by making them more holographic and systemic.<span id="more-34"></span>The following interview took place in 1994.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Kris:</strong>  What is Generative NLP and how do you see it fitting into the future of psychotherapy, health and well being?</p>
<p><strong>Robert:</strong> One of the ways that I see it is that solutions and problem solving come from having resources, and the purpose of generative NLP is to take something that is a resource and to make more of it, to expand it and to enrich it. So I think minimally, what Generative NLP does is it allows people to &#8220;build&#8221; resources instead of trying to select or rely upon resources that they had in the past or something that they have in the present. They can actually take something in the present and expand it.</p>
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<p>Secondly, I think that there is a possibility of using Generative NLP itself as an approach. The idea of it is if you build a strong enough resource, that resource will attract the problems of the symptoms that are ready to be solved by that resource. So in that sense, by developing resources, problems become solved. But not because you have to go out and seek a problem and then solve it, but because the resource is available. It&#8217;s now able to solve the particular symptom or problem.</p>
<p><strong>Kris:</strong>  How did you begin to develop this process?</p>
<p><strong>Robert:</strong> There are several influences. One is that I was thinking about the ways that I use NLP with myself. Because when I think about using NLP, I think in terms of mastery and modeling. I don&#8217;t just use NLP and say &#8220;OK, where are my problems and how do I solve them?</p>
<p>Whenever I discover a new thing, then I immediately ask, &#8220;What can I do with this? If I had it even better than this, what would happen? If I did this, what would happen?&#8221; It wasn&#8217;t a problem solving approach; it was more like an exploratory approach to see how things would work out.</p>
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<p>Some of the other influences have to do with also being more and more involved with integrating systems and systemic ways of operating in NLP and the particular influence that was bringing it together was the influence of self organization and taking very seriously that systems self organize and self develop. If we really took to heart the belief that NLP purports, that people have the capabilities that they need and the only reason that they are not already using them is that they need to be mobilized, drawn out or activated, then certainly one of the most important things we can do is to have tools and ways of activating and developing those resources.</p>
<p><strong>Kris:</strong> The concept of time seems to play an important role in Generative NLP. What is your concept of time in general, taking into account Aristotle&#8217;s and Einstein&#8217;s view of time, and how does time relate to the generative process?</p>
<p><strong>Robert</strong>Aristotle thought that it was interesting that people were so caught up with time. Aristotle said, &#8220;that time is made up of all the things that use to be and aren&#8217;t anymore, and the things that aren&#8217;t yet and may never be.&#8221; So time is made up of things that are not and yet we get all involved in it. I think Einstein basically perceived time as a construct. And certainly I perceive the perception of time as a tool.</p>
<p>In the same way that we want to use all of our representational systems, we want to have many ways of approaching time. Not to find the right map order, but to think of time as a tool that can actually lead us to punctuating our perceptions of things differently.</p>
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<p>One of the generative NLP processes involves stepping into the future and asking, &#8220;How would this resource change?&#8221; And when the person can feel the change in their body as their future self, you then say:</p>
<p>&#8220;Well of course, the feeling that you&#8217;re having in your body really isn&#8217;t in the future, that&#8217;s really in the present. Take that future resource and realize that this resource should really be the present state, not the future state because it&#8217;s really in the present.&#8221; And so you&#8217;ll begin using the &#8220;conceptions&#8221; of time to change that person&#8217;s future resource experience into their present first position. Speaking of conception, there is another place you can explore, like preconception. A lot of times people limit themselves to their perception of time and to their memories of their own life and of course, time is not only limited to our own personal memories. We can create spaces for perceptions by using time. Like the idea of the preconception place which allows you to view your life not just as perceiving time as a line, but as a landscape of possibilities. Because a lifetime isn&#8217;t a line, it&#8217;s more like a landscape and a particular life is a pathway through a very broad landscape that has many choices.</p>
<p><strong>Kris:</strong>  If there is one thing that you would want readers to know or one thing that you would want to emphasize regarding Generative NLP, what would that be?</p>
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<p><strong>Robert:</strong>The thing that comes to mind is number one, that the basic form of change in NLP is that you bring a resource into some problem space. But the whole crux of change is not which technique you use, but which resource you are able to activate. The focus of change, rather than on the problem or even the goals, needs to be on the kinds of resources that we have and the tools of NLP.</p>
<p>To me, the real value of the tools of NLP is like a lot of my recent books such as <em>Skills for the Future </em>or<em> Tools for Dreamers</em> instead of changing beliefs, fixing health, or whatever. It&#8217;s no so much the problems that you solve; it&#8217;s the resources that you have that are available. The time that we spend in developing our resources is what is going to really make the difference in the future. In that sense, part of the message of Generative NLP is that past and future are constructs. The whole purpose of change history is to &#8220;enrich the present.&#8221; The whole purpose of planning the future is to &#8220;mobilize resources from the present&#8221; so that we can live life from first person presentáand the rest of it is always bringing resources to that ongoing experience because that is the way we move to the future ˆ it is from being as fully ourselves and bringing as many past and future resources as we can into the present.</p></blockquote>
<p><strong> Kris Hallbom</strong> is the co-director of the NLP Institute of California. She has been writing professionally for 15 years, working as an editor and staff writer for various newspapers, magazines and journals. She holds a degree in Psychology and Languages and is a long time student of NLP and Systems Theory.<br />
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